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The revolting
news items that violate the sensibilities of society are the ones
about maltreatment of women in the Islamic world. The news of a woman
being thrown to hungry dogs after being declared Kari, the burying
alive of two women for asserting their right of being a human being
are a few examples. The BBC channel has repeatedly shown a documentary
when fathers and brothers proudly claim that they have killed their
womenfolk for honour and in the name of Islam. Being very disturbed by
this scenario, I decided to ascertain in the light of teachings of the
Holy Qur’an, the teachings of other religions and historical facts as
to where a Muslim Women stood, regarding her rights and duties.
The first
exercise I undertook was to make a positive comparative analysis of
the position of women in other religious. In Buddhism, Nirwana, which
is the ultimate state of salvation, cannot be attained in the company
of a woman. In Judaism, women are considered an Eternal Divine Curse.
It is believed that, “of the women came the beginning of Sin and
through her we will die. In Christianity, the original sin is
attributed to women who are considered Evil, soul less beings, the
Devil’s Gateway and unsealer of God’s image Man. Along with this
analysis, historical facts about status of women in Arabia, just
before the advent of Islam, in the days of Jahilliyah were that the
girl child was buried alive. A woman was treated as a piece of
property. She had no right of will in marriage or divorce, due to
which there were impious marriages of sons with their step mothers and
a woman having many husbands.
With the advent
of Islam, a clear change in the status of women is visible. The Holy
Qur’an, gave a Muslim woman the status of a Muslima or Muhsana
(Fortress against Satan) while narrating the events that Adam’s ousted
from Jannat, states: “That Adam disobeyed his Lord in being corrupted
by Satan.” In the Holy Qur’an, an entire Surah-An-Nisa, has been
devoted exclusively to the rights, duties and everyday problems faced
by women. Wherever the Holy Qur’an addresses Muslim Men, it also
addresses the Muslim Women, clearly reflecting that Islam recognizes
their equality.
The Holy
Prophet (PBUH) is the role model in practical exercise of the status
awarded to women in Islam. The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) made attainment
of knowledge obligatory on all Muslim men and women, with special
instructions that even slave girls should be educated. He (PBUH) held
separate classes for the religious and moral education of Muslim
women. He (PBUH) made sure that all rights given to women by the
Qur’an are practically implemented.
The rights
given to Muslim Women can be broadly categorized into legal, economic
and social rights. A Muslim woman has her own legal personality in
inheritance and ownership of property. She is not a
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moon that
shines through reflected light but is a solar planet with a definite
identity. Her status is equal to that of a man. She can conduct
business as Bibi Khadija did, she can be an expert on law and
jurisprudence as Bibi Aesha was. She can lead the army as Bibi Aesha
did. The Muslim woman can utilize her material assets as she chooses.
The Qur’an clearly states that whatever are the earnings of a Muslima,
she owns it all. However, in this context one issue, that is always
highlighted negatively is the higher status given to a man in Islam.
It is factually correct that the word used in this context is
“Qawwameen” for a man. It is stated that the man’s status has been
kept a degree higher than the woman. The logic behind this is that in
Islam, it is absolutely the man who is entrusted to provide for the
woman and his family. A woman’s earning and ownership of assets are
entirely her own. She is not required to provide for the family at
all. Therefore, the same rule is for inheritance also where a man’s
share is double than that of a woman. The most obvious reason for this
is that Islam believes and aims towards strong family unit. To balance
this unit, the position of the man in a family has to be strong and
central. But within this unit, the woman has the greatest advantage.
She is entitled to her own living quarters and her services are
recognized to the extent that the Qur’an clearly instructs that she
should be paid even for nursing and rearing her child.
Islam gives
unparallel social rights to the Muslima. It is mandatory for a Muslima
to receive and attain education. She has the right to conduct economic
activity. In the contract of marriage, her status is equal to the man.
Not only has she been given the rights to choose her husband, she also
has the right to divorce. This right is a part of the Nikahnama but
due to ignorance majority of the women do not tick upon the section
and are thus deprived of a very powerful and balancing position in a
marriage contract. She has the right to be treated well by her
husband, as well as, receive Mehar and maintenance. Unlike the
position of widow in Hunduism, where the widow is required to wear
white dress and live a life of abstinence, the status of widowhood in
Islam is that such that the Holy Prophet (PBUH) himself contracted
marriage with widows. The rights of a Muslima are so pronounced that
she has to be paid compensation by her husband even for nursing her
own children.
On the
religious side, there is absolute equity in relationship with
Almightly Allah. The divine promise of reward for good conduct and
punishment for evil conduct is the same for a Muslim and Muslima. But
with all the rights the duties too have been clearly defined. The
Muslim Woman is required to be dutiful as a daughter and sister and
faithful as a wife. As a mother, it is her duty to train her children
to be good Muslims.
Finally the
controversies associated with the status of women in Islam are
concepts of Polygamy, the dress code Adhi Gawahi, the Hudood Ordinance
and honour killing, marriage to Qur’an, Karo Kari and sawara Custom in
the name of Islam have been designed to defame the position endowed by
Islam to the Muslima. Not only all these customs are entirely
un-Islamic, they are also inhuman. |